Heather O'Rourke in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Heather O'Rourke only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for O'Rourke.
Heather has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Heather O'Rourke has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Heather O'Rourke to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Heather O'Rourke has a great deal of emotional depth.
O'Rourke depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Heather's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Heather O'Rourke may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.
Heather O'Rourke often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, O'Rourke actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Heather O'Rourke to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Heather O'Rourke becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". O'Rourke can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
In addition to Heather's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Heather O'Rourke craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make O'Rourke rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Heather has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. O'Rourke craves excitement and emotional freedom and she likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to O'Rourke and she has little patience for restrictive customs. Heather O'Rourke is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.
Heather's emotional life seems to be overly intense and her sexuality is very strong. Heather O'Rourke is likely to make many demands of her partner and she has to guard against possessiveness, jealousy and a tendency to force someone to love her.
In love relationships, Heather O'Rourke desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Heather "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. O'Rourke can be very demanding of her love partner. Heather O'Rourke tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Heather O'Rourke is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Heather O'Rourke craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Heather loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for O'Rourke.
She is creative and ingenious and will put deep, feeling energy into her creations. But her emotional state is easily upset and O'Rourke can be a fanatic in love relationships. Heather O'Rourke tends to be possessive and she has such intense needs that disappointments may be unavoidable.
Somewhat over-enthusiastic in matters of love relationships, Heather O'Rourke could fall in love with the wrong person. She may be too selfless and have the illusion that her only need in relationships is to make the other person happy, leading to disappointments and regrets.
Heather O'Rourke is extremely sensitive to her surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. O'Rourke tends to avoid the truth about herself and her relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.
Love relationships are likely to be on her mind a lot and Heather O'Rourke seems to live only for love. Her power of attraction is unusually strong and O'Rourke will probably have very deep relationships. Her relationships could be fated or she may fall in love with someone of social standing.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 7th house
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Conjunct Uranus
Moon Conjunct Venus/Pluto
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 8th house
Venus Conjunct Sun/Pluto
Venus Conjunct Moon/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Uranus/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Pluto/MC
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