Hayden Christensen
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Hayden Christensen only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Christensen.
Hayden has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Hayden Christensen has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Hayden Christensen to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Hayden Christensen has a great deal of emotional depth.
Hayden has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Hayden Christensen may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Christensen's tie to his mother is very strong and Hayden Christensen also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.
He needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Hayden Christensen is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Hayden has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make him cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Hayden - one that can be enormously satisfying if he can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if he cannot.
In love relationships, Hayden Christensen is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Hayden enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Hayden Christensen responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Hayden Christensen very happy. Hayden wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Hayden Christensen may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Christensen is a natural host or diplomat.
Hayden Christensen is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Hayden Christensen pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.
His tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Hayden Christensen possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Hayden may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. Hayden Christensen may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
Hayden's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Hayden Christensen is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Christensen is to being left out or unappreciated.
Hayden Christensen tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Christensen may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Hayden Christensen is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Hayden believes he has - is so important for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
His romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. Hayden Christensen longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. Christensen tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 4th house
Moon Opposition Venus
Venus in Taurus
Venus in 10th house
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Quincunx Saturn
Venus Opposition Saturn/Uranus
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