Harry Dean Stanton
in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Harry Dean Stanton rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Stanton's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Stanton may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Harry difficult to live with. Harry Dean Stanton needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Stanton works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Harry, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. He is likely to be engaged in providing and caring for others in a professional capacity.
Harry has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Stanton cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
Harry has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Harry Dean Stanton may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because he is so emotionally invested in it.
His emotional needs are very important to Harry Dean Stanton and he tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in his immediate world. Stanton will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to him.
Harry has an instinctive understanding of other people and is very sympathetic toward them. Relationships are very important to Harry Dean Stanton, and he is likely to feel a strong inner bond with many of his friends.
In a love relationship, Harry Dean Stanton is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Harry likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Harry Dean Stanton becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Harry Dean Stanton's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Harry Dean Stanton needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Stanton finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Harry Dean Stanton craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Harry loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Stanton.
Harry Dean Stanton has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well being. It is rare for Harry to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Stanton. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Harry Dean Stanton to channel his passion.
Harry Dean Stanton tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Stanton may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Harry Dean Stanton is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Harry believes he has - is vital for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
Harry Dean Stanton tends to make up his mind quickly in matters of love relationships and affection and may fall in love at first sight. His expectations about romance can be intense and Harry is inclined to exaggerate and could have arguments about his loved ones.
He is inclined to do everything with love and may even be in love with his profession. At times Harry Dean Stanton is apt to consider his work as a substitute for a partner, but he could also show some narcissistic tendencies.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 10th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Sextile Pluto
Moon Conjunct Sun/Asc.
Moon Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 8th house
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Quincunx Saturn
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Mars
Venus Conjunct Mars/MC
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