Harris Yulin
in Relationships

Open and generous, Harris Yulin enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Yulin rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Harris always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Harris Yulin often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Yulin, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Harris Yulin to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Harris' aspirations and ideals. Harris Yulin also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Harris Yulin has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Harris sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Harris Yulin is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Harris wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

Harris Yulin tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Harris Yulin could create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides him with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Harris that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Harris Yulin craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.

Harris Yulin possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Harris Yulin will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Harris does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Harris Yulin wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Harris Yulin appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Yulin is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Harris Yulin thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Harris Yulin puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Harris Yulin and he is not happy without a love partner. Yulin can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.

Harris Yulin shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Harris' generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Harris Yulin also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Harris likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.

His romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. Harris Yulin longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. Yulin tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 1st house

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Venus in Libra

Venus in 11th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus Opposition Saturn/Uranus