Gustave Kahn
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Gustave Kahn only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Kahn.
Gustave has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Gustave Kahn has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Gustave Kahn to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Gustave Kahn has a great deal of emotional depth.
Gustave Kahn may have done extensive traveling in his early years, or in some way had a background which enables him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Kahn has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things he has never experienced before. Gustave Kahn wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Gustave is restless and something of a wanderer.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Gustave Kahn often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
There is another side to Gustave Kahn as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Gustave Kahn often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Kahn actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Gustave Kahn to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Gustave Kahn becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Kahn can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Kahn's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Gustave Kahn is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
His thinking and acting are strongly influenced by his feelings. Gustave has great mental energy, is somewhat restless, curious and impatient, and at times he may need to slow down. Gustave Kahn loves debate and argument and also has good writing ability.
His emotional excitability is very strong and Kahn tends to be high-strung and impatient. Gustave Kahn knows what he wants to accomplish, he forges ahead and brooks no interference. Domineering and forceful, it is not easy for Gustave Kahn to back down gracefully when he is confronted.
He is easily influenced by his environment and tends to get depressed when things do not go the way he expected. Relationships are not easy for Gustave Kahn; he could be a recluse, avoiding most contact with others.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Gustave Kahn cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Kahn's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Gustave at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Gustave Kahn is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Gustave Kahn may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Gustave desires.
Kahn is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Gustave Kahn thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Gustave Kahn cannot or will not hold onto it. Gustave Kahn has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Kahn's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Gustave freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Kahn could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.
Kahn also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Gustave Kahn just wants to have a good time.
Gustave Kahn has artistic interests and may be attracted to people who are artists, are connected with artistic endeavors or interested in art. He is very sociable and feel more at home in beautiful surroundings.
Gustave Kahn finds it easy to demonstrate his love and affection for others and to talk about love relationships, and Kahn tends to reveal his most personal feelings to people in his intimate circle of friends.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 9th house
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Square Saturn
Moon Trine Neptune
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Mars
Moon Conjunct Mars/MC
Moon Opposition Saturn/Asc.
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 11th house
Venus Opposition Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Sun/N. Node
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
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