Gilbert Adrian
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Gilbert Adrian has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Gilbert Adrian is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Gilbert Adrian seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Gilbert Adrian tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Adrian's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Gilbert Adrian substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Gilbert Adrian gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Gilbert Adrian makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Gilbert Adrian needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Gilbert Adrian has a cheering effect on those around him. Adrian likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential ingredients for his emotional well-being.

There is another side to Gilbert Adrian as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Gilbert Adrian often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Gilbert Adrian actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Gilbert Adrian to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Gilbert Adrian becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Gilbert Adrian can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

Gilbert Adrian tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Adrian to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Gilbert Adrian may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

His emotional needs are very important to Gilbert Adrian and he tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in his immediate world. Gilbert Adrian will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to him.

His sense of reality is a bit weak; Gilbert Adrian tends to daydream and lose himself in his plans. He is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help him escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Adrian may be drawn to philanthropic associations.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Gilbert Adrian enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Adrian wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Gilbert Adrian is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Gilbert Adrian thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Gilbert Adrian to be able to deeply respect his partner. Adrian looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to him. Gilbert Adrian is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.

Gilbert Adrian has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Adrian frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Gilbert Adrian can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Gilbert Adrian's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 11th house

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Conjunct Sun/Asc.

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune

Venus in Aries

Venus in 11th house

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus Square Neptune