Gerard Butler
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Gerard Butler denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Gerard Butler needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Gerard Butler also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Gerard Butler has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Gerard sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Gerard Butler is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Gerard cannot hide his emotions.
Gerard Butler has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Butler would react more intensely. Gerard is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
In addition to Gerard's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Gerard Butler craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Butler rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Gerard Butler craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Gerard Butler to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Butler. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Butler likes it that way.
In love relationships, Gerard Butler desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Gerard "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Butler can be very demanding of his love partner. Gerard Butler tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Gerard Butler is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Gerard is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Butler places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Also, Gerard Butler feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Gerard Butler puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Gerard Butler and he is not happy without a love partner. Butler can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Gerard Butler and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Gerard allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Gerard Butler, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
Gerard Butler is extremely sensitive to his surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. Butler tends to avoid the truth about himself and his relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 1st house
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Square Uranus
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus Conjunct Uranus/Neptune
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