George Sanders in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for George Sanders only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Sanders.
George has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. George Sanders has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for George Sanders to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. George Sanders has a great deal of emotional depth.
He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. George Sanders cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.
George Sanders has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets him into trouble, as George takes risks on an impulse or a whim.
His emotional excitability is very strong and Sanders tends to be high-strung and impatient. George Sanders knows what he wants to accomplish, he forges ahead and brooks no interference. Domineering and forceful, it is not easy for George Sanders to back down gracefully when he is confronted.
George Sanders tends to be emotional inhibited when he is with others and therefore appear rather aloof. Although he may feel lonely, George is inclined to flee from crowds of people and to give the impression of needing protection.
He is easily influenced by his environment and tends to get depressed when things do not go the way he expected. Relationships are not easy for George Sanders; he could be a recluse, avoiding most contact with others.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, George Sanders cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. George wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. George Sanders is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.
George Sanders craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Sanders enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Sanders is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, George Sanders is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. George uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything George Sanders does.
George Sanders tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Sanders may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. George Sanders is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections George believes he has - is vital for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 5th house
Moon Opposition Mars/MC
Moon Opposition Saturn/N. Node
Moon Opposition Saturn/Asc.
Venus in Leo
Venus in 1st house
Venus Quincunx Saturn
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