George S. Barnes in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, George S. Barnes rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Barnes' love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Barnes may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes George difficult to live with. George S. Barnes needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Though he yearns for close relationships, George S. Barnes often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Barnes is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
No matter how he appears on the surface, George S. Barnes has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to George's sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as he does. Barnes is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. George does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. George S. Barnes is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
George has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. George S. Barnes has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. George S. Barnes undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. George S. Barnes is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. George S. Barnes also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
George S. Barnes craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. George loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Barnes.
George S. Barnes has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though George frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Barnes can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Barnes' love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
George S. Barnes experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. George S. Barnes has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, George S. Barnes can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
George S. Barnes treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows his affection for them. His circle of friends is likely to be large and Barnes strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 8th house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Square Pluto
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 8th house
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Opposition N. Node/Asc.
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