Gelsey Kirkland
in Relationships

Gelsey does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Gelsey Kirkland would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Gelsey Kirkland avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Kirkland. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

Gelsey has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage and family traditions. In fact, Gelsey Kirkland may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Kirkland's ties to her mother are very strong and Gelsey also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members.

Gelsey Kirkland feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and she knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. She enjoys good relationships with women.

The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Kirkland's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Gelsey Kirkland is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Gelsey has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people she cares about. Her relationships to her mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in her life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Gelsey Kirkland may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because she is so emotionally invested in it.

Kirkland instinctively knows her mission in life. She is satisfied knowing inside herself what she can do and she does not feel the need to be dependent on anyone. But Gelsey Kirkland is also sensitive to others' needs and has a strong desire to spend time with her loved ones.

Gelsey Kirkland tends to be emotional inhibited when she is with others and therefore appear rather aloof. Although she may feel lonely, Gelsey is inclined to flee from crowds of people and to give the impression of needing protection.

She is easily influenced by her environment and tends to get depressed when things do not go the way she expected. Relationships are not easy for Gelsey Kirkland; she could be a recluse, avoiding most contact with others.

Gelsey Kirkland seems to have the wrong conception of the world around her and may suffer disappointments frequently. It is difficult for Gelsey to adapt herself and to acquire a community spirit, and she cannot achieve the inner understanding with others that she longs for.

Her emotional life tends to be a bit strange and she is likely to fantasize a lot and to weave a web of illusions. Easily swayed by the needs of others, Gelsey Kirkland must learn not to take on others problems and also guard against others deceiving her.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Gelsey Kirkland values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Gelsey desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Kirkland, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Gelsey Kirkland appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Kirkland is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Gelsey Kirkland is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Gelsey uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Gelsey Kirkland does.

Gelsey Kirkland is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Gelsey Kirkland pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Gelsey Kirkland in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Kirkland is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Gelsey Kirkland at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.

Sensitive and compassionate, Kirkland tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Gelsey has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Gelsey is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Gelsey Kirkland explores the depths she is capable of. She could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with her partners. Kirkland will experience both heaven and hell in her closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Gelsey Kirkland things about herself and about love that she could not learn in any other way. Kirkland will often enter relationships which she realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet she cannot resist them, nonetheless. Gelsey Kirkland needs not to avoid berating herself for these "bad" choices; instead, she needs to learn what she can from them.

She may be subject to periodic changes of mood, is serious, somewhat somber, and she seems to lack confidence in herself and could have trouble giving of hers. Gelsey Kirkland tends to avoid close relationships, expecting to be disappointed if she lets anyone come too close.

Somewhat over-enthusiastic in matters of love relationships, Gelsey Kirkland could fall in love with the wrong person. She may be too selfless and have the illusion that her only need in relationships is to make the other person happy, leading to disappointments and regrets.

Gelsey likes to feel at one with the whole world and is cordial and warm-hearted in collaborating with others. Public-spirited, Gelsey Kirkland seems to be real content and happy only when she is among other people.

Gelsey Kirkland has a need for calm and peaceful surrounding, but her somewhat passionate nature could bring on arguments and fights about love matters. Gelsey Kirkland loves her work and may connect her profession with a hobby in some way.

Her feelings are very rich and Gelsey Kirkland has an enormous capacity to express her love. She is very cordial and likely to experience happiness in love relationships. Gelsey Kirkland may also have artistic aspirations or aims and could be very successful in some kind of artistic work.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 4th house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Sextile Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/MC

Moon Opposition Saturn/N. Node

Moon Opposition Saturn/Asc.

Moon Opposition Neptune/N. Node

Moon Opposition Neptune/Asc.

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 1st house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus Trine Neptune

Venus Opposition Pluto

Venus Opposition Moon/Saturn

Venus Opposition Moon/Neptune

Venus Conjunct Mars/N. Node

Venus Conjunct Mars/Asc.

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/MC