Gaylord Hauser
in Relationships
Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Gaylord Hauser has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Gaylord Hauser is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Hauser for help, which he readily gives. Sometimes Hauser's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.
He is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings are vague and he cannot easily verbalize how he experiences life, music seems a natural language for Hauser. He is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".
Gaylord Hauser has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Hauser also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Gaylord, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.
Gaylord Hauser feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Gaylord Hauser often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
There is another side to Gaylord Hauser as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Gaylord Hauser has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Hauser would react more intensely. Gaylord is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
He is inclined to identify duty and happiness with each other. Self-disciplined and realistic, Gaylord Hauser expects very little. Once he has found his mate, Gaylord Hauser will be faithful, self-sacrificing and strongly attached to his partner.
He is subject to changing moods and tends to alternate between associating with others and being completely alone, seeking to regenerate himself in solitude. Gaylord Hauser seems to be too critical of himself and tends to generate distance from others.
Sensitive and sentimental, Gaylord Hauser is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Hauser to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Gaylord Hauser seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Gaylord likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Gaylord Hauser very happy. Gaylord wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Gaylord Hauser may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Hauser is a natural host or diplomat.
He is kindhearted and generous with both his money and his affections, and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Gaylord's nature and Gaylord Hauser feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Hauser. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Gaylord Hauser has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
Gaylord's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Gaylord Hauser is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Hauser is to being left out or unappreciated.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Gaylord Hauser in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Hauser is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Gaylord Hauser at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Pisces
Moon in 6th house
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon Opposition Venus/Saturn
Moon Opposition Jupiter/Saturn
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 10th house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Trine Saturn
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