G. K. Chesterton
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for G. K. Chesterton only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Chesterton.

Gilbert has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. G. K. Chesterton has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for G. K. Chesterton to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. G. K. Chesterton has a great deal of emotional depth.

Chesterton depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Gilbert's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. G. K. Chesterton may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.

G. K. Chesterton often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Chesterton actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for G. K. Chesterton to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and G. K. Chesterton becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Chesterton can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

His emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Chesterton may feel inhibited when he is with others. G. K. Chesterton is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.

Sensitive and sentimental, G. K. Chesterton is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Chesterton to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. G. K. Chesterton seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Gilbert likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.

Beautiful, elegant, and harmonious surroundings are very important to G. K. Chesterton, and he has an innate sense of style, design, and form. Socially, also, good form and politeness are important to Chesterton and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. G. K. Chesterton appreciates artistic people.

G. K. Chesterton has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to him. In his friendships and romantic relationships, Chesterton tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. G. K. Chesterton might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 7th house

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Opposition Pluto/N. Node

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Sextile Neptune