Frank Zappa in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Frank Zappa rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Zappa's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Zappa may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Frank difficult to live with. Frank Zappa needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Frank Zappa may have traveled extensively in his early years, or something in his background may have enabled him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Zappa has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that he has never experienced before. Frank Zappa wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Frank is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.
Zappa is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Frank Zappa needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.
He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Frank Zappa craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Zappa also loves to feel free and unfettered.
Although Frank Zappa was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Frank's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Frank Zappa often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Frank Zappa is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
In love relationships, Frank Zappa seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Frank, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Frank Zappa supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Frank that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Frank Zappa is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Frank Zappa often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Frank. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Frank Zappa may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Frank Zappa - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
Frank Zappa has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to him. In his friendships and romantic relationships, Zappa tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Frank Zappa might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.
Frank Zappa loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Zappa may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 9th house
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 12th house
Venus Sextile Neptune
Venus Trine Pluto
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