François Bazin
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; François should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Bazin often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Bazin's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, François Bazin insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. François does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

François Bazin feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give François Bazin a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from François' past are especially dear to him.

François Bazin may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

There is a side to François Bazin that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Bazin can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Bazin. If François' parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. François Bazin can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice François is particularly prone to.

Serious and emotionally reserved, François Bazin was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, François Bazin feels lonely or isolated, even when he is with people. Learning to appreciate his own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to François' emotional well-being.

François Bazin tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for François to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. François Bazin may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. François Bazin is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. François Bazin also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.

François is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, François Bazin feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

François Bazin is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, François Bazin pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

François Bazin tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Bazin may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. François Bazin is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections François believes he has - is vital for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

François Bazin has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though François frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Bazin can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Bazin's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which François Bazin explores the depths he is capable of. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with his partners. Bazin will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach François Bazin things about himself and about love that he could not learn in any other way. Bazin will often enter relationships which he realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet he cannot resist them, nonetheless. François Bazin needs not to avoid berating himself for these "bad" choices; instead, he needs to learn what he can from them.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Quincunx Venus

Moon Conjunct Saturn

Moon Sextile Neptune

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Quincunx Saturn

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Opposition Pluto