Fernando Lamas in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Fernando Lamas is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Fernando Lamas is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
Lamas depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Fernando's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Fernando Lamas may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Fernando Lamas often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
There is another side to Fernando Lamas as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Fernando Lamas has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Lamas would react more intensely. Fernando is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Fernando does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Fernando Lamas is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Fernando Lamas insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.
Fernando Lamas has a very rich emotional life and the ability to do the right thing at the right moment. Through an appeal to the feelings, he is able to influence the public; Lamas may have the desire to work in some capacity to bring about social improvements.
Fernando Lamas tends to be emotional inhibited when he is with others and therefore appear rather aloof. Although he may feel lonely, Fernando is inclined to flee from crowds of people and to give the impression of needing protection.
His emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Lamas may feel inhibited when he is with others. Fernando Lamas is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.
In love relationships, Fernando Lamas seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Fernando, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Fernando Lamas supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Fernando that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Fernando Lamas is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Fernando Lamas craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Fernando loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Lamas.
Fernando Lamas has a passionate nature and a strong expression of his sexuality. His creative energies also are strong and he may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 7th house
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Trine Pluto
Moon Opposition Jupiter/Pluto
Moon Opposition Saturn/N. Node
Moon Opposition Pluto/N. Node
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 8th house
Venus Conjunct Moon/Mars
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