Fergie in Relationships
Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Fergie is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Fergie is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.
Fergie has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage and family traditions. In fact, Fergie may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Stacy Ferguson's ties to her mother are very strong and Fergie also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members.
There is a side to Fergie that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in her chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Stacy Ferguson can be lazy and overly permissive with herself. She enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Stacy Ferguson. If Fergie's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging her too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Fergie can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to her. Eating too many sweets is a vice Fergie is particularly prone to.
Fergie often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Stacy Ferguson actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Fergie to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Fergie becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Stacy Ferguson can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
Fergie tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Fergie to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Fergie may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
Her emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Fergie seems quite peaceful and the next, she is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of her reactions often surprises even her. Fergie has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things she cares about. Her feelings and desires can be so compelling that she does things against her better judgment and reason. Stacy Ferguson can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. Her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
In love relationships, Fergie is steadfast and loyal, especially if she has a warm, demonstrative partner. She is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Fergie enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. She is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of her loved one. Fergie responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of her partner is very important to her.
Stacy Ferguson is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Fergie thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
In love relationships and romance, it is important for Fergie to be able to deeply respect her partner. Fergie looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before she lets herself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for her. Fergie is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. She may be drawn to someone older than her.
It is absolutely essential for Fergie not to deceive herself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of others. Fergie tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may ensue. On the other hand, it is also possible that Fergie will use her attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general need to be developed.
She is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Fergie to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Stacy Ferguson may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Fergie will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of her character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
She is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Fergie is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, she may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 4th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Square Saturn
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Venus in Taurus
Venus in 11th house
Venus Sextile Saturn
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Quincunx Pluto
Venus Opposition Neptune/Pluto
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