Evangeline Lilly
in Relationships

Open and generous, Evangeline Lilly enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Lilly rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Evangeline always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Evangeline Lilly often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Lilly, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Evangeline Lilly to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Evangeline's aspirations and ideals. Evangeline Lilly also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Evangeline Lilly often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Lilly thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Evangeline is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Evangeline Lilly has good psychological insight into others.

Evangeline Lilly often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Lilly actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Evangeline Lilly to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Evangeline Lilly becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Lilly can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

She is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Evangeline Lilly often retreats into her own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, she will not fight or assert herself, even when she needs to. Evangeline Lilly is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Evangeline Lilly cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in her partner. Evangeline wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Evangeline Lilly is tremendously loyal and devoted once she gives her heart to someone.

Evangeline Lilly craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. She is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Lilly enjoys a touch of drama and color in her love relationships and she is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Evangeline Lilly very happy. Evangeline wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Evangeline Lilly may be "married to" her work - namely she may be more involved in her career than in her private life. Lilly is a natural host or diplomat.

It may be hard for Evangeline Lilly to love someone and to express her love for them. There seems to be a wall built up between her and others and she seems very cool to them. Her disposition is very reserved and withdrawn, making it difficult for people to approach her.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Venus in Leo

Venus in 10th house

Venus Conjunct Mars/Saturn