Errol Flynn in Relationships
Errol Flynn responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Flynn often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Errol Flynn must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Errol's need for times of withdrawal.
Errol Flynn is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Errol Flynn takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.
Errol Flynn often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Flynn thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Errol is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Errol Flynn has good psychological insight into others.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Errol Flynn cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Flynn's motto.
Although Flynn gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Errol Flynn to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Errol Flynn often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Flynn actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Errol Flynn to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Errol Flynn becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Flynn can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
In addition to Errol's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Errol Flynn craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Flynn rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
His childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Flynn received was erratic and unreliable at best. Errol Flynn has had to move a lot, or Flynn's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Errol was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Errol Flynn may long for "normalcy" while at the same time he balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.
Errol Flynn often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Flynn, both emotionally and physically.
Although Errol Flynn was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Errol's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Errol Flynn often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Errol Flynn is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
Sensitive and sentimental, Errol Flynn is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Flynn to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Errol Flynn seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Errol likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Beautiful, elegant, and harmonious surroundings are very important to Errol Flynn, and he has an innate sense of style, design, and form. Socially, also, good form and politeness are important to Flynn and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.
He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Errol Flynn appreciates artistic people.
Errol Flynn is warmly romantic and he openly expresses his appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. He enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Flynn is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because he knows what he wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses his desires honestly.
Errol Flynn loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Errol considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well-liked. At times, Errol Flynn overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets this.
He is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Errol Flynn yearns for his "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to his dream image of the perfect lover. Flynn frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone he can only love from afar. He may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Errol Flynn does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. He is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Opposition Uranus
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 3rd house
Venus Trine Mars
Venus Sextile Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Neptune
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