Ernest Borgnine
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Ernest should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Borgnine often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Borgnine's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Ernest Borgnine insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Ernest does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Ernest Borgnine feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

Borgnine works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Ernest, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Ernest Borgnine has a cheering effect on those around him. Ernest likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential ingredients for his emotional well-being.

There is another side to Ernest Borgnine as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Borgnine can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Ernest Borgnine puts up subtle walls and distance himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Borgnine may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Ernest Borgnine might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

In addition to Ernest's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Ernest Borgnine craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Borgnine rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Ernest has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Borgnine craves excitement and emotional freedom and he likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Borgnine and he has little patience for restrictive customs. Ernest Borgnine is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.

He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Ernest Borgnine cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Borgnine's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Ernest at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Ernest Borgnine is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.

Ernest Borgnine may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Ernest desires.

Ernest Borgnine craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Ernest loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Borgnine.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 10th house

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Conjunct Uranus

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 8th house