Eric Stoltz in Relationships
Eric does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Eric Stoltz would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Eric Stoltz avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Stoltz. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
Stoltz depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Eric's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. Eric Stoltz may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Eric Stoltz cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Stoltz's motto.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Eric Stoltz also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
He is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous, and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for himself or others. Subconsciously Eric Stoltz feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At his worst Stoltz can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in his chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Eric's emotional indulgence - Stoltz tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.
His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Eric Stoltz does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Stoltz tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and his relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Eric Stoltz enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Eric Stoltz is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Eric Stoltz also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Eric is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Stoltz places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Also, Eric Stoltz feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Eric Stoltz has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to him. In his friendships and romantic relationships, Stoltz tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Eric Stoltz might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.
Eric has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. His love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Stoltz experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Eric Stoltz is always profoundly changed by his love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. He is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things he cares about.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 7th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Quincunx Jupiter
Moon Sextile Uranus
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 9th house
Venus Sextile Neptune
Venus Conjunct Pluto
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