Émile Zola in Relationships
Émile Zola has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Zola expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Émile Zola dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Émile abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Émile Zola inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Émile is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Zola.
Émile Zola becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Zola feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Émile has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Émile Zola may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Zola's ties to his mother are very strong and Émile also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.
Émile Zola feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. Émile may not realize how competitive he is.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Émile Zola also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
He is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for himself or others. Subconsciously Émile Zola feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At his worst, Zola can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in his chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Émile's emotional indulgence - Zola tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.
Although Zola gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Émile Zola to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
There is another side to Émile Zola as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Émile Zola has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Zola would react more intensely. Émile is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
Although Émile Zola was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Émile's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Émile Zola tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Émile to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Émile Zola may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Émile Zola seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Émile has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Zola can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
He is warm and affectionate in his relationships with others and has the ability to see the others' point of view, which is greatly appreciated by those around him. Émile Zola is emotionally well balanced and also has a well developed intellectual grasp.
He is not afraid to take chances and follow his ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Zola can be uncompromising at times. Émile Zola also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Émile Zola gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Émile Zola may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Émile feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Émile Zola idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Émile Zola, and he has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Zola and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.
He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Émile Zola appreciates artistic people.
Émile Zola appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Émile Zola will rarely put himself out too much in the process. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Émile Zola falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Émile to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Zola's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Émile Zola, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to him.
Zola's constitution tends to be on the weak side and he may tire easily. In love relationships he could be somewhat reserved and have a tendency toward platonic relationships. On the other hand, Émile Zola could also have questionable romances that leave Émile disappointed.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 4th house
Moon Conjunct Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Quincunx Jupiter
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Moon Conjunct Sun/Mercury
Moon Conjunct Sun/Mars
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 3rd house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Conjunct Sun/Neptune
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