Elton John
in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace-loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Elton John has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, John is tremendously stubborn and will resist any change which requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.
Elton John seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones, and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, John tends to cling and seek to keep others from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness, and touching is essential to Elton's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Elton John substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Elton has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Elton John may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. John's tie to his mother is very strong and Elton John also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.
Elton John often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, John actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Elton John to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises that can occur when he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Elton John becomes much attached to the few people he considers "real friends". John can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
He is very compassionate and loves to share his feelings with others. Elton John is always in search for new relationships and enjoy working together with others in meetings, clubs or associations.
He is very ambitious and his energy is based on his feelings. Elton John may feel that he has to assert himself regardless of the risks that may be involved. Elton could have considerable tension with others and is not likely to compromise.
His sense of reality is a bit weak; John tends to daydream and lose himself in his plans. He is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help him escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Elton may be drawn to philanthropic associations.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance, and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together, and having many friends of both sexes. Elton John values friendship very highly and is, in fact, more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Elton desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The roles of "husband" and "wife" in the traditional sense do not appeal to John, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Elton John appreciates relationships where his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
For Elton John, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Elton values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Elton John needs to beware of.
Elton John shares freely whatever he has, and his friends know they can always count on Elton's generosity and support, both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way in maintaining harmony in his relationships. Elton John also has a lazy streak and sometimes he avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Elton likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate too much restriction by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.
He is open and progressive in his attitudes towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in his love-expression. Elton John is always willing to experiment and try anything new that John's partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. Relationship in which both Elton and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold John's interest much more than safe, predictable ones.
He makes a good impression on others and tends to attract people who want to take care of him, which could cause Elton John to become too dependent on others. Partnership is important to John, and he is inclined to change his ways just for the sake of love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 4th house
Moon Square Saturn
Moon Conjunct Find Sun/N. Node
Moon Conjunct Find Mars/Uranus
Moon Opposition Jupiter/Neptune
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 2nd house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Conjunct Moon/Asc.
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