Elizabeth Avellan
in Relationships

Elizabeth Avellan responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Avellan often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Elizabeth Avellan must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Elizabeth's need for times of withdrawal.

Elizabeth Avellan is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Elizabeth Avellan takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.

Elizabeth Avellan has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Avellan also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Elizabeth, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Elizabeth Avellan feels that she must always be doing something, and she becomes impatient and irritable if she has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of her own tendency to fight for what she wants, rather than compromise. Elizabeth may not realize how competitive she is.

Although Avellan gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Elizabeth Avellan to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Elizabeth Avellan either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives her any warmth or security. Elizabeth Avellan tends to withhold and clamp down on many of her feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture her is important to her. Her earliest years, especially Avellan's relationships with her mother, will determine whether Elizabeth Avellan will overcome her fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.

In love relationships, Elizabeth Avellan seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Elizabeth, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Elizabeth Avellan supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Elizabeth that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Elizabeth Avellan is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Avellan is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Elizabeth Avellan thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

She is open and progressive in her attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way she expresses her love. Elizabeth Avellan is always willing to experiment and try anything new that her partner suggests, and she enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Elizabeth and her partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Avellan's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 6th house

Moon Conjunct Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Opposition Saturn

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Trine Uranus