Elisa Donovan in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Elisa Donovan has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Donovan is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.
Elisa Donovan seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Donovan tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Elisa's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Elisa Donovan substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Elisa, and it is often difficult for her to share what she is feeling with others.
Elisa Donovan frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of her own world.
Donovan identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.
There is a side to Elisa Donovan that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in her chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Donovan can be lazy and overly permissive with herself. She enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Donovan. If Elisa's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging her too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Elisa Donovan can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to her. Eating too many sweets is a vice Elisa is particularly prone to.
Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Elisa Donovan flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Elisa Donovan feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Elisa Donovan to learn. Elisa Donovan should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.
She enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of her inner resources. She is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Elisa Donovan insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for she craves real closeness and intimacy in her relationships, without barriers or secrets.
Elisa has the ability to speak with her heart and soul and therefore to convince people. She is adaptable in both her thinking and speaking, but also changeable. In her work Elisa Donovan can be a fanatic, at times inconsiderate and expects too much of others.
In love relationships, Elisa Donovan seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Elisa, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Elisa Donovan supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Elisa that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Elisa Donovan is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Donovan is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always know many people who love and cherish her. Elisa Donovan prefers being with others rather than on her own, and she feels very incomplete without a special person in her life to share her love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Elisa.
Elisa is a peacemaker - the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. Her charm and agreeableness make Elisa Donovan very popular.
Elisa Donovan experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and she may feel that she has little choice or control over her desires. Elisa Donovan has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. Her love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in her relationships. On the positive side, Elisa Donovan can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by her deeply felt love.
Elisa Donovan has a merry disposition and a strong desire for pleasure and amusement. Interested in art, she has a sense of beauty, but also could be somewhat extravagant. Her outgoing personality puts others at ease and Donovan tends to discuss love and beauty with them.
Elisa Donovan has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but she may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Elisa tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 12th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Opposition Neptune
Moon Trine Pluto
Moon Opposition Mercury/Pluto
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 7th house
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
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