Eli Wallach in Relationships
Open and generous, Eli Wallach enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Wallach rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Eli always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Eli Wallach often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Wallach, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Eli Wallach to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Eli's aspirations and ideals. Eli Wallach also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
Wallach works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Eli, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Eli Wallach cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Wallach's motto.
His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Eli Wallach that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Wallach's neediness often drives others away. When Eli Wallach does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Wallach will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Eli Wallach will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
Eli Wallach has a warm-hearted and cordial disposition and his feelings toward others are very deep and filled with love. Eli goes out of his way to be agreeable and should have little trouble getting ahead in life.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Eli Wallach cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Wallach's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Eli at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Eli Wallach is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Eli Wallach may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Eli desires.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Eli Wallach very happy. Eli wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Eli Wallach may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Wallach is a natural host or diplomat.
Intimate relationships are the arena in which Eli Wallach explores the depths he is capable of. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with his partners. Wallach will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Eli Wallach things about himself and about love that he could not learn in any other way. Wallach will often enter relationships which he realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet he cannot resist them, nonetheless. Eli Wallach needs not to avoid berating himself for these "bad" choices; instead, he needs to learn what he can from them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 10th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Opposition Pluto
Moon Conjunct Venus/MC
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 10th house
Venus Opposition Pluto
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