Eleonora Benfatto
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Eleonora Benfatto denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Eleonora Benfatto needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Eleonora Benfatto also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Eleonora Benfatto a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Eleonora's past are especially dear to her.

Eleonora Benfatto may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

Benfatto is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and she enjoys sharing this kind of energy with her friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to her. In fact, Eleonora Benfatto needs to do these things - otherwise she gets crabby.

There is a side to Eleonora Benfatto that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in her chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Benfatto can be lazy and overly permissive with herself. She enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Benfatto. If Eleonora's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging her too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Eleonora Benfatto can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to her. Eating too many sweets is a vice Eleonora is particularly prone to.

Her sense of reality is a bit weak; Benfatto tends to daydream and lose herself in her plans. She is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help her escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Eleonora may be drawn to philanthropic associations.

In a love relationship, Eleonora Benfatto is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Eleonora likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Eleonora Benfatto becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Eleonora Benfatto's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Eleonora Benfatto needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Benfatto finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Benfatto is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always know many people who love and cherish her. Eleonora Benfatto prefers being with others rather than on her own, and she feels very incomplete without a special person in her life to share her love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Eleonora.

Eleonora is a peacemaker - the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. Her charm and agreeableness make Eleonora Benfatto very popular.

She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Eleonora Benfatto puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Eleonora Benfatto and she is not happy without a love partner. Benfatto can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.

Eleonora Benfatto appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though she enjoys helping people, Eleonora Benfatto will rarely put herself out too much in the process. She is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.

Eleonora Benfatto tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Eleonora frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Eleonora Benfatto also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Eleonora Benfatto tends to suppress her feelings and she approaches other people with great reserve. She may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between her and others. But once Eleonora Benfatto enters a relationship, she will be faithful and steady in her feelings for her partner.

Chronically discontented, she is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Eleonora Benfatto tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Eleonora has to learn to overcome her fears and general shyness with people.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Sextile Mars

Moon Quincunx Venus

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 7th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Trine Jupiter

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn