Edward Bulwer-Lytton
in Relationships

Edward Bulwer-Lytton responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. 1st Baron Lytton often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Edward Bulwer-Lytton must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Lord Bulwer-Lytton's need for times of withdrawal.

Edward Bulwer-Lytton is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Edward Bulwer-Lytton takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Edward Bulwer-Lytton has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Lord Bulwer-Lytton sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Edward Bulwer-Lytton is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Lord Bulwer-Lytton wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

Lord Bulwer-Lytton has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps 1st Baron Lytton cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Edward Bulwer-Lytton has a cheering effect on those around him. Lord Bulwer-Lytton likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential to his emotional well-being.

His health should be good and his recuperative powers are strong. Edward Bulwer-Lytton is able to express his feelings harmoniously and he considers himself wealthy either on material or spiritual planes. He is well liked and his relationships with others are congenial.

Edward Bulwer-Lytton seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Lord Bulwer-Lytton likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. He is guided by his feelings and seems to live in a world of his own.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Edward Bulwer-Lytton enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Lord Bulwer-Lytton wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Edward Bulwer-Lytton very happy. Lord Bulwer-Lytton wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Edward Bulwer-Lytton may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. 1st Baron Lytton is a natural host or diplomat.

His tastes and natural inclinations border on the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Edward Bulwer-Lytton possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life of plenty, ease and comfort. Lord Bulwer-Lytton may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. Edward Bulwer-Lytton may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.

Edward Bulwer-Lytton has a need to mix with people expressing the same feelings and having the same interests that he has. Lord Bulwer-Lytton shares his artistic concerns with others and is likely to join groups or associations that deal with art in some way.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 1st house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Sun/Jupiter

Moon Opposition Neptune/MC

Venus in Aries

Venus in 10th house

Venus Quincunx Jupiter

Venus Conjunct Mercury/N. Node