Edie Sedgwick in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Edie Sedgwick only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Sedgwick.
Edie has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Edie Sedgwick has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Edie Sedgwick to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Edie Sedgwick has a great deal of emotional depth.
She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Edie Sedgwick cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.
Edie Sedgwick has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets her into trouble, as Edie takes risks on an impulse or a whim.
She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Edie Sedgwick cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Sedgwick's motto.
Edie Sedgwick tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and she may feel that she does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in her life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Edie Sedgwick could create a unique lifestyle that affords her a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow her own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides her with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Edie that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Edie Sedgwick craves change and excitement whether she realizes it consciously or not.
Edie has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Edie Sedgwick has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Edie Sedgwick undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
Edie Sedgwick is in harmony with herself and the world around her and is guided by her instincts. The parental type, she would like to solve everyone's problems. Very warm, sympathetic and cordial, Edie radiates harmony wherever she goes.
In a love relationship, Edie Sedgwick is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Edie likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Edie Sedgwick becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Edie Sedgwick's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Edie Sedgwick needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Sedgwick finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Edie Sedgwick often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Edie. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Edie Sedgwick may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Edie Sedgwick - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Edie Sedgwick puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Edie Sedgwick and she is not happy without a love partner. Sedgwick can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.
Intimacy does not come easily to Edie Sedgwick and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Sedgwick does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Edie Sedgwick needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.
When it comes to love relationships, Sedgwick is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Edie Sedgwick has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Edie acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.
She is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Edie Sedgwick falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when her feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Edie to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Sedgwick's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Edie Sedgwick, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to her.
Her romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with her. Oftentimes Edie Sedgwick is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that she has very little choice or control over her powerful feelings.
She may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive herself. Edie Sedgwick should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for she could gain the reputation of being a "user".
Edie Sedgwick finds it easy to demonstrate her love and affection for others and to talk about love relationships, and Sedgwick tends to reveal her most personal feelings to people in her intimate circle of friends.
Her romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. Edie Sedgwick longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. Sedgwick tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 5th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Quincunx Uranus
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Opposition Asc./MC
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 12th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Sextile Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
Venus Conjunct Saturn/Uranus
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