Duncan James
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Duncan James has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. James expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Duncan James dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Duncan abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".

Duncan James inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Duncan is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for James.

Duncan James becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. James feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).

James works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Duncan, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. He is likely to be engaged in providing and caring for others in a professional capacity.

Duncan James tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Duncan James could create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides him with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Duncan that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Duncan James craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on James' emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Duncan James is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Duncan James that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and James' neediness often drives others away. When Duncan James does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. James will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Duncan James will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

In love relationships, Duncan James is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Duncan enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Duncan James responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Duncan James very happy. Duncan wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Duncan James may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. James is a natural host or diplomat.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aries

Moon in 10th house

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 10th house