Julius Erving (Dr. J)
in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Julius "Dr. J" Erving has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Julius Erving is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.
Julius "Dr. J" Erving seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Julius Erving tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Dr. J's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Julius "Dr. J" Erving substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Though he wants close relationships very much, Julius "Dr. J" Erving often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Julius Erving is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
Julius "Dr. J" Erving tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Dr. J feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Julius "Dr. J" Erving also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that he is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Julius Erving to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Julius "Dr. J" Erving may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.
Although Julius Erving gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Julius "Dr. J" Erving to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Julius "Dr. J" Erving has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Julius Erving would react more intensely. Dr. J is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
Dr. J has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Julius "Dr. J" Erving has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Julius "Dr. J" Erving undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
Dr. J has the ability to speak with his heart and soul and therefore to convince people. He is adaptable in both his thinking and speaking, but also changeable. In his work Julius "Dr. J" Erving can be a fanatic, at times inconsiderate and expects too much of others.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Julius "Dr. J" Erving values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Dr. J desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Julius Erving, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Julius "Dr. J" Erving appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Julius "Dr. J" Erving and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Dr. J shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Julius Erving happy.
While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Julius "Dr. J" Erving to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Dr. J becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Julius "Dr. J" Erving really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in Dr. J's closest relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 8th house
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Opposition Mercury/Pluto
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 4th house
Venus Quincunx Uranus
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