Dougie Payne
in Relationships
He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Dougie should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Payne often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Payne's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Dougie Payne insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Dougie does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Dougie Payne feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
Dougie Payne may have traveled extensively in his early years, or something in his background may have enabled him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Payne has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that he has never experienced before. Dougie Payne wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Dougie is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Dougie Payne cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Payne's motto.
Although Dougie Payne was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Dougie's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Dougie does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Dougie Payne is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Dougie Payne possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Dougie Payne will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Dougie does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Dougie Payne wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Dougie Payne appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Dougie Payne loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Payne needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner and he wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to his beloved. Dougie Payne also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Dougie Payne in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Payne is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Dougie Payne at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
When it comes to love relationships, Payne is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Dougie Payne has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Dougie acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Dougie Payne falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Dougie to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Payne's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Dougie Payne, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to him.
Dougie Payne treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows his affection for them. His circle of friends is likely to be large and Payne strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 9th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Square Neptune
Venus in Libra
Venus in 5th house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Opposition N. Node/Asc.
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