Dirk Frimout
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Dirk Frimout denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Dirk Frimout needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Dirk Frimout also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Dirk Frimout a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Dirk's past are especially dear to him.
Dirk Frimout may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Dirk Frimout often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
There is another side to Dirk Frimout as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Dirk Frimout has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Frimout would react more intensely. Dirk is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Dirk Frimout gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Dirk Frimout may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Dirk feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Dirk Frimout idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Dirk Frimout, and he has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Frimout and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.
He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Dirk Frimout appreciates artistic people.
Dirk Frimout has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well being. It is rare for Dirk to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Frimout. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Dirk Frimout to channel his passion.
He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Dirk, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Dirk Frimout tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Frimout's life.
Dirk Frimout tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Dirk frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Dirk Frimout also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.
His erotic nature is strong and Dirk Frimout is likely to have a lot of romantic relationships. Very unconventional, he may have many unorthodox contacts. Dirk has much zest for life, likes his freedom and finds it difficult to settle down.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 3rd house
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Sextile Uranus
Venus Opposition Neptune
Venus Conjunct Mars/Uranus
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