Didier Gustin
in Relationships

Didier Gustin responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Gustin often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Didier Gustin must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Didier's need for times of withdrawal.

Didier Gustin is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Didier Gustin takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Didier Gustin may have traveled extensively in his early years, or something in his background may have enabled him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Gustin has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that he has never experienced before. Didier Gustin wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Didier is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.

Didier Gustin feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.

His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Didier Gustin does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Gustin tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and his relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Didier Gustin enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Gustin's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Didier Gustin is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Didier has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Didier Gustin may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because he is so emotionally invested in it.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Didier Gustin gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Didier Gustin may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Didier feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Didier Gustin idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Didier Gustin loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Gustin needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner and he wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to his beloved. Didier Gustin also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.

Intimacy does not come easily to Didier Gustin and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Gustin does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Didier Gustin needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.

When it comes to love relationships, Gustin is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Didier Gustin has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Didier acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

Didier Gustin is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Didier is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Didier Gustin professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Gustin a lot of breathing space.

Sensitive and compassionate, Gustin tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Didier has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Didier is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Didier Gustin explores the depths he is capable of. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with his partners. Gustin will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Didier Gustin things about himself and about love that he could not learn in any other way. Gustin will often enter relationships which he realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet he cannot resist them, nonetheless. Didier Gustin needs not to avoid berating himself for these "bad" choices; instead, he needs to learn what he can from them.

Somewhat over-enthusiastic in matters of love relationships, Didier Gustin could fall in love with the wrong person. He may be too selfless and have the illusion that his only need in relationships is to make the other person happy, leading to disappointments and regrets.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 9th house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Sextile Pluto

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 5th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Opposition Uranus

Venus Trine Neptune

Venus Opposition Pluto

Venus Opposition Moon/Neptune