Dick Cavett
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Dick Cavett denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Dick Cavett needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Dick Cavett also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Dick Cavett has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Dick sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Dick Cavett is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Dick cannot hide his emotions.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Dick Cavett cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Cavett's motto.
His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Dick Cavett that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Cavett's neediness often drives others away. When Dick Cavett does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Cavett will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Dick Cavett will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Dick Cavett cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Cavett's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Dick at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Dick Cavett is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Dick Cavett may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Dick desires.
Cavett is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Dick Cavett is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Dick uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Dick Cavett does.
He is kindhearted and generous with both his money and his affections, and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Dick's nature and Dick Cavett feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Cavett. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Dick Cavett has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Dick Cavett puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Dick Cavett and he is not happy without a love partner. Cavett can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Dick Cavett is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Dick and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Cavett's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
He is inclined to be rather quiet and humble and go about his business in a very modest way. Feeling sad frequently, Dick Cavett does not seem to have much interest in becoming involved in love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 1st house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Opposition Pluto
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 1st house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus Square Mars
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Conjunct Saturn/MC
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