Devon Aoki
in Relationships

Devon Aoki has frequent emotional outbursts due to her fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Aoki expresses herself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what her true feelings are. However, Devon Aoki dislikes showing any personal weakness or her need for support, comfort and nurturing. She is often impatient with herself and others. Devon abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".

Devon Aoki inspires others to take positive action in their lives through her own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and she is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Devon is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that she can boss around too much. She enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Aoki.

Devon Aoki becomes very cross if she lacks vigorous physical activity. Aoki feels her best if she frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).

Devon Aoki has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Aoki also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Devon, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.

Devon has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Aoki cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Aoki's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Devon Aoki is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Her intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Devon Aoki that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. She may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Aoki's neediness often drives others away. When Devon Aoki does let herself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses she suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt she endured. She may also reenact these situations in her present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Aoki will do a lot of cleansing if she can listen to what her feelings are telling her. If not, Devon Aoki will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

Her will tends to be a bit weak and she seems to lack courage. Somewhat slow to take action, Devon Aoki thinks that she will fail because of her inadequacies as a person. She keeps her feelings to herself and should guard against depression and pessimism.

She is subject to changing moods and tends to alternate between associating with others and being completely alone, seeking to regenerate herself in solitude. Devon Aoki seems to be too critical of herself and tends to generate distance from others.

Devon Aoki responds in a strong emotional way to the influence of her environment and has a need to reform those around her. Devon has a very powerful psychic influence on others and they may look to Aoki for guidance and direction, and she rarely lets them down.

Sensitive and sentimental, Devon Aoki is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Aoki to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Devon Aoki seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Devon likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.

Devon is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Aoki places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Devon Aoki feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

It is absolutely essential for Devon Aoki not to deceive herself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of other people. Devon tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may result. On the other hand, it is also possible that Devon Aoki will use her attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty, and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general, need to be developed.

Devon Aoki experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and she may feel that she has little choice or control over her desires. Devon Aoki has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. Her love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in her relationships. On the positive side, Devon Aoki can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by her deeply felt love.

Her feelings are very powerful and Devon Aoki expresses them vividly. Her romantic relationships are likely to be very passionate and deep. Devon Aoki has a tendency to go to extremes in love relationships and may be driven by inner compulsion rather than rational thinking.

She makes a good impression on others and tends to attract people who want to take care of her, which could cause Devon Aoki to become too dependent on others. Partnership is important to Aoki, and she is inclined to change her ways just for the sake of love relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aries

Moon in 6th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto

Moon Opposition Mars/Saturn

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Saturn

Moon Opposition Pluto/Asc.

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 9th house

Venus Quincunx Neptune

Venus Square Pluto

Venus Conjunct Moon/Pluto

Venus Opposition Moon/Asc.