Deng Xiaoping
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Deng Xiaoping denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Deng Xiaoping needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Deng Xiaoping also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

Xiaoping works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Deng, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.

Powerful and complex emotions stir Deng Xiaoping, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are apt to be tumultuous until Deng does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets, or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only serve to intensify them, and Deng Xiaoping needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy, and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating, if Deng Xiaoping is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

He is highly sensitive to everyone around him and is subject to strange moods or feelings. Deng Xiaoping has a tendency to exaggerate and could have unrealistic ambitions that may be hard to realize. It would be wise for Xiaoping to keep his expectations a bit lower.

His emotional tension could be quite strong and the pressure may seem unbearable at times. He may have a sudden desire to liberate himself from the stress and may release his tension towards women. Deng Xiaoping could also feel lonely and depressed at times.

He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Deng Xiaoping is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Deng Xiaoping also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.

When he cares about someone, Deng Xiaoping likes to serve them by doing small thoughtful favors, helping them, or doing something tangible to show his affection.

Deng Xiaoping has also considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Deng is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in some way.

Deng Xiaoping has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to him. In his friendships and romantic relationships, Xiaoping tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Deng Xiaoping might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.

Deng Xiaoping has a good understanding of his own needs but also is genuinely interested in other people. Others are attracted to Xiaoping because of his gentle, kind and friendly manner and he may feel especially drawn to young people.

His nature is harmonious and Deng radiates happiness so that everyone around him will be in good spirits. His taste is likely to be elegant and he has a strong desire to surround himself with beauty. Deng Xiaoping may be interested in fashion, hair-styling or other beauty-related fields.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 10th house

Moon Quincunx Pluto

Moon Opposition Mars/Neptune

Moon Conjunct Saturn/Uranus

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 6th house

Venus Sextile Neptune

Venus Conjunct Sun/Mercury

Venus Opposition Moon/Jupiter