Debbie Rochon
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Debbie Rochon has frequent emotional outbursts due to her fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Rochon expresses herself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what her true feelings are. However, Debbie Rochon dislikes showing any personal weakness or her need for support, comfort and nurturing. She is often impatient with herself and others. Debbie abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".

Debbie Rochon inspires others to take positive action in their lives through her own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and she is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Debbie is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that she can boss around too much. She enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Rochon.

Debbie Rochon becomes very cross if she lacks vigorous physical activity. Rochon feels her best if she frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).

Debbie Rochon often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Rochon thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Debbie is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Debbie Rochon has good psychological insight into others.

Debbie Rochon tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if she perceives a threat to her family or home or personal safety, she can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Debbie feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Debbie Rochon also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and she is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Rochon to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Debbie Rochon may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in her relationships.

Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Debbie Rochon also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.

She is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for herself or others. Subconsciously Debbie Rochon feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At her worst, Rochon can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in her chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Debbie's emotional indulgence - Rochon tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.

Although Rochon gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Debbie Rochon to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

There is another side to Debbie Rochon as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Serious and emotionally reserved, Debbie Rochon was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Debbie Rochon feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Debbie's emotional well-being.

Although Debbie Rochon was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Debbie's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Debbie Rochon needs to beware of deceiving herself and allowing others to take advantage of her impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living her life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Rochon. Debbie Rochon tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.

Powerful and complex emotions stir Debbie Rochon, and her emotional life and closest personal relationships are liable to be tumultuous until Debbie does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that she does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only intensify them, and Debbie Rochon needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy and fairly objective. Ridding herself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve her can be tremendously liberating if Debbie Rochon is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

She is highly sensitive to everyone around her and is subject to strange moods or feelings. Debbie Rochon has a tendency to exaggerate and could have unrealistic ambitions that may be hard to realize. It would be wise for Rochon to keep her expectations a bit lower.

Her sense of reality is a bit weak; Rochon tends to daydream and lose herself in her plans. She is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help her escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Debbie may be drawn to philanthropic associations.

She is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Debbie Rochon immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. She may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.

In love relationships, Debbie Rochon seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Debbie, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Debbie Rochon supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Debbie that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Debbie Rochon is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Rochon is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Debbie Rochon thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Debbie Rochon in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Rochon is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Debbie Rochon at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.

Debbie Rochon tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool herself at times. Her desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and she may tries to hide her deception from others as well as from herself.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aries

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Quincunx Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Conjunct Saturn

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Quincunx Neptune

Moon Quincunx Pluto

Moon Opposition Mars/Neptune

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Neptune

Moon Opposition Neptune/Pluto

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus Conjunct Neptune/Asc.