David Spade
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. David Spade denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". David Spade needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. David Spade also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

David Spade may have done extensive traveling in his early years, or in some way had a background which enables him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Spade has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things he has never experienced before. David Spade wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, David is restless and something of a wanderer.

David Spade tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for David to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. David Spade may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. David Spade insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.

He is not afraid to take chances and follow his ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Spade can be uncompromising at times. David Spade also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.

David has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to his advantage. His quick understanding of things allows David Spade to see beyond ordinary limits, and he has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.

In a love relationship, David Spade is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. David likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and David Spade becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to David Spade's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. David Spade needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Spade finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

For David Spade, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. David values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something David Spade needs to beware of.

David Spade is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, David Spade pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 9th house

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Trine Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/Mars

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Uranus

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 2nd house

Venus Conjunct Mars