David E. Kelley
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. David E. Kelley denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". David E. Kelley needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. David E. Kelley also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
David E. Kelley has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Kelley also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For David, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
David E. Kelley feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. David may not realize how competitive he is.
David E. Kelley feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.
Although Kelley gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable David E. Kelley to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about fulfilling his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to David E. Kelley; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
David E. Kelley is apt to do more than his fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
In addition to David's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. David E. Kelley craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Kelley rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
His childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Kelley received was erratic and unreliable at best. David E. Kelley has had to move a lot, or Kelley's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that David was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, David E. Kelley may long for "normalcy" while at the same time he balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.
David E. Kelley often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Kelley, both emotionally and physically.
Although David E. Kelley was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow David's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. David does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. David E. Kelley is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
In a love relationship, David E. Kelley is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. David likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and David E. Kelley becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to David E. Kelley's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. David E. Kelley needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Kelley finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Kelley is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. David E. Kelley thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague David E. Kelley and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy David allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for David E. Kelley, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
When it comes to love relationships, Kelley is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, David E. Kelley has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if David acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to David, and "settling down" is not that appealing. David E. Kelley tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Kelley's life.
It is absolutely essential for David E. Kelley not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of others. David tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may ensue. On the other hand, it is also possible that David E. Kelley will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general need to be developed.
David E. Kelley experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. David E. Kelley has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, David E. Kelley can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 6th house
Moon Conjunct Mars
Moon Trine Venus
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Opposition Uranus
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Square Neptune
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 11th house
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Sextile Uranus
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Square Pluto
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