Damien Touya in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Damien Touya rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Touya's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Touya may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Damien difficult to live with. Damien Touya needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Damien Touya may have traveled extensively in his early years, or something in his background may have enabled him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Touya has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that he has never experienced before. Damien Touya wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Damien is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.
He is very intuitive and has the ability to make the right decisions guided by his inner feelings. Damien Touya has a sense of honor and pride and is considerate of others. Others respect Touya and are willing to help him, because he does not act out of petty motives.
Damien Touya tends to be emotional inhibited when he is with others and therefore appear rather aloof. Although he may feel lonely, Damien is inclined to flee from crowds of people and to give the impression of needing protection.
In a love relationship, Damien Touya is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Damien likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Damien Touya becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Damien Touya's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Damien Touya needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Touya finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
When he cares about someone, Damien Touya likes to show his affection with small favors or tangible gestures.
Damien Touya also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Damien is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Damien Touya puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Damien Touya and he is not happy without a love partner. Touya can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
Damien Touya loves to laugh, celebrate and enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Damien considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well liked. At times, Damien Touya overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets it.
Damien Touya tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Damien frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Damien Touya also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.
Damien Touya loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Touya may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.
Chronically discontented, he is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Damien Touya tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Damien has to learn to overcome his fears and general shyness with people.
Damien Touya treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows his affection for them. His circle of friends is likely to be large and Touya strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 9th house
Moon Opposition Mars/Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Saturn/N. Node
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 6th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Sextile Jupiter
Venus Opposition Neptune
Venus Trine Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn
Venus Opposition N. Node/Asc.
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