Cosima Liszt-Wagner
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Cosima Liszt-Wagner only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Cosima Wagner.

Cosima Liszt has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Cosima Liszt-Wagner has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Cosima Liszt-Wagner to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Cosima Liszt-Wagner has a great deal of emotional depth.

Cosima Liszt-Wagner often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Cosima Wagner thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Cosima Liszt is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Cosima Liszt-Wagner has good psychological insight into others.

Serious and emotionally reserved, Cosima Liszt-Wagner was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Cosima Liszt-Wagner feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Cosima Liszt's emotional well-being.

Her sense of reality is a bit weak; Cosima Wagner tends to daydream and lose herself in her plans. She is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help her escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Cosima Liszt may be drawn to philanthropic associations.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Cosima Liszt-Wagner values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Cosima Liszt desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Cosima Wagner, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Cosima Liszt-Wagner appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

When she cares about someone, Cosima Liszt-Wagner likes to show her affection with small favors or tangible gestures.

Cosima Liszt-Wagner also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Cosima Liszt is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.

Her tastes and natural inclinations border on the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Cosima Liszt-Wagner possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life of plenty, ease and comfort. Cosima Liszt may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Cosima Liszt-Wagner may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.

Cosima Liszt's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Cosima Liszt-Wagner is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Cosima Wagner is to being left out or unappreciated.

She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Cosima Liszt-Wagner rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Cosima Liszt is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Cosima Wagner craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Cosima Liszt-Wagner needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.

Cosima Liszt-Wagner is extremely sensitive to her surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. Cosima Wagner tends to avoid the truth about herself and her relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Conjunct Saturn

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 6th house

Venus Quincunx Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Square Saturn

Venus Conjunct Uranus/Neptune