Connie Stevens
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Connie Stevens denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Connie Stevens needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Connie Stevens also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
Connie Stevens often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Stevens thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Connie is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Connie Stevens has good psychological insight into others.
Connie Stevens often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Stevens actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Connie Stevens to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Connie Stevens becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Stevens can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
In addition to Connie's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Connie Stevens craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Stevens rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Connie Stevens craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Stevens also loves to feel free and unfettered.
The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Stevens' emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Connie Stevens is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Connie Stevens is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Connie Stevens also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Stevens is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Connie Stevens thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
Her tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Connie Stevens possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Connie may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Connie Stevens may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
Her romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate, and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with her. Oftentimes Connie Stevens is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that she has very little choice or control over her powerful feelings.
She may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive herself. Connie Stevens should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for she could gain the reputation of being a "user".
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon Trine Neptune
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 11th house
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus Sextile Pluto
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