Collier Young
in Relationships
Collier does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Collier Young would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Collier Young avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Young. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
Young depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Collier's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. Collier Young may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about meeting his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Collier Young and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Collier Young is apt to do more than his fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
Sensitive and sentimental, Collier Young is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Young to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Collier Young seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Collier likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Collier Young craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Collier loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Young.
He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Collier Young rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Collier is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though Young craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Collier Young needs to learn to love and value himself before he finds happiness in love.
When it comes to love relationships, Young is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Collier Young has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Collier acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
Collier Young is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Collier is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Collier Young professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Young a lot of breathing space.
He is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Collier Young yearns for his "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to his dream image of the perfect lover. Young frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone he can only love from afar. He may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Collier Young does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. He is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 7th house
Moon Sextile Saturn
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 8th house
Venus Square Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Opposition Uranus
Venus Conjunct Neptune
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