Claude Autant-Lara in Relationships
Claude Autant-Lara has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Autant-Lara expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Claude Autant-Lara dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Claude abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Claude Autant-Lara inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Claude is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Autant-Lara.
Claude Autant-Lara becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Autant-Lara feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Autant-Lara gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Claude Autant-Lara makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Claude Autant-Lara needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.
Claude Autant-Lara takes offense rather quickly and his instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. He has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When he is not actively involved, he is not comfortable. Claude Autant-Lara actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.
Although Autant-Lara gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Claude Autant-Lara to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Claude Autant-Lara often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Autant-Lara actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Claude Autant-Lara to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Claude Autant-Lara becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Autant-Lara can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
In addition to Claude's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Claude Autant-Lara craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Autant-Lara rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Claude Autant-Lara craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Autant-Lara also loves to feel free and unfettered.
Emotionally excitable, Autant-Lara tends to act impulsively and make rash decisions without thinking of the consequences. Others may see Claude as an eccentric, somewhat selfish and unpredictable. Claude Autant-Lara seems to attract sudden upsetting experiences.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Claude Autant-Lara is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Claude Autant-Lara also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Claude Autant-Lara and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Claude shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Autant-Lara happy.
Claude Autant-Lara appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Claude Autant-Lara will rarely put himself out too much in the process. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
Claude's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Claude Autant-Lara is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Autant-Lara is to being left out or unappreciated.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Claude Autant-Lara in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Autant-Lara is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Claude Autant-Lara at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
Claude Autant-Lara treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows his affection for them. His circle of friends is likely to be large and Autant-Lara strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 11th house
Moon Opposition Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon Opposition Sun/Uranus
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 4th house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
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