Cisco Adler
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Cisco Adler only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Adler.
Cisco has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Cisco Adler has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Cisco Adler to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Cisco Adler has a great deal of emotional depth.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Cisco, and it is often difficult for him to share what he is feeling with others.
Cisco Adler frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his own world.
Adler identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
No matter how he appears on the surface, Cisco Adler has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Cisco's sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as he does. Adler is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
Cisco Adler has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Cisco out for help, sympathy or advice. Cisco Adler is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.
There is another side to Cisco Adler as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about fulfilling his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Cisco Adler; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Cisco Adler is apt to do more than his fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
He is very ambitious and his energy is based on his feelings. Cisco Adler may feel that he has to assert himself regardless of the risks that may be involved. Cisco could have considerable tension with others and is not likely to compromise.
Cisco Adler possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Cisco Adler will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Cisco does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Cisco Adler wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Cisco Adler appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Cisco Adler often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Cisco. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Cisco Adler may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Cisco Adler - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
Cisco Adler shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Cisco's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Cisco Adler also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Cisco likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.
Adler's constitution tends to be on the weak side and he may tire easily. In love relationships he could be somewhat reserved and have a tendency toward platonic relationships. On the other hand, Cisco Adler could also have questionable romances that leave Cisco disappointed.
Cisco Adler has a constant longing for new and exciting adventures. Cisco likes to be admired and he has a tendency to force admiration by fishing for compliments. His creative power also is strong, and Adler may have a desire to create some entirely new form of art.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 12th house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon Conjunct Mars/Uranus
Venus in Libra
Venus in 12th house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Sun/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Uranus/Pluto
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