Christophe Dominici in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Christophe Dominici rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Dominici's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Dominici may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Christophe difficult to live with. Christophe Dominici needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Christophe, and it is often difficult for him to share what he is feeling with others.
Christophe Dominici frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his own world.
Dominici identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Christophe Dominici genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support him. It is relatively easy for Christophe Dominici to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in his life. Children are very important to Dominici also.
Dominici is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Christophe Dominici needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Christophe Dominici also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Christophe Dominici often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
Although Dominici gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Christophe Dominici to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
There is another side to Christophe Dominici as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Christophe Dominici often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Dominici actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Christophe Dominici to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Christophe Dominici becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Dominici can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
Although Christophe Dominici was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Christophe's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Christophe does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Christophe Dominici is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Christophe Dominici tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. Christophe may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance his overly pessimistic views.
Sensitive and sentimental, Christophe Dominici is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Dominici to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Christophe Dominici seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Christophe likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Christophe Dominici very happy. Christophe wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Christophe Dominici may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Dominici is a natural host or diplomat.
Christophe Dominici is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Christophe Dominici pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.
Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Christophe Dominici cannot or will not hold onto it. Christophe Dominici has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Dominici's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Christophe freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Dominici could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.
Dominici also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Christophe Dominici just wants to have a good time.
It is absolutely essential for Christophe Dominici not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of others. Christophe tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may ensue. On the other hand, it is also possible that Christophe Dominici will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general need to be developed.
Christophe Dominici experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Christophe Dominici has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Christophe Dominici can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 12th house
Moon Sextile Venus
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Conjunct Saturn/Neptune
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 10th house
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Opposition Jupiter
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Square Pluto
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