Chris Mancini
in Relationships
He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Chris should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Mancini often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Mancini's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Chris Mancini insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Chris does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Chris Mancini feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
Mancini depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Chris' life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. Chris Mancini may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
Mancini can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Chris Mancini puts up subtle walls and distance himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Mancini may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Chris Mancini might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge here.
The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Mancini's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Chris Mancini is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Chris Mancini that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Mancini's neediness often drives others away. When Chris Mancini does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Mancini will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Chris Mancini will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
In a love relationship, Chris Mancini is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Chris likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Chris Mancini becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Chris Mancini's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Chris Mancini needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Mancini finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Mancini is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Chris Mancini thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
Chris Mancini shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Chris' generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Chris Mancini also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Chris likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.
Chris Mancini is warmly romantic and he openly expresses his appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. He enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Mancini is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because he knows what he wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses his desires honestly.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 7th house
Moon Quincunx Saturn
Moon Trine Neptune
Moon Opposition Pluto
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Trine Mars
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