Chris Evert in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Chris Evert only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Evert.
Chris has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Chris Evert has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Chris Evert to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Chris Evert has a great deal of emotional depth.
Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Chris, and it is often difficult for her to share what she is feeling with others.
Chris Evert frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of her own world.
Evert identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.
No matter how she appears on the surface, Chris Evert has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Chris' sympathetic, affectionate side. She especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and she wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as she does. Evert is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Chris Evert cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Evert's motto.
Although Evert gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Chris Evert to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Chris Evert was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Chris Evert feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Chris' emotional well-being.
In love relationships, Chris Evert desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Chris "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Evert can be very demanding of her love partner. Chris Evert tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Chris Evert is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Chris Evert often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Chris. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Chris Evert may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Chris Evert - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
Intimacy does not come easily to Chris Evert and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Evert does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Chris Evert needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.
She makes a good impression on others and tends to attract people who want to take care of her, which could cause Chris Evert to become too dependent on others. Partnership is important to Evert, and she is inclined to change her ways just for the sake of love relationships.
She is rich in feelings and has the ability to express them well. Chris Evert has a knack for making others feel good and is likely to enjoy a harmonious sex-life. Chris also has a strong need to create and may have a flair for designing fashionable clothes.
Her erotic nature is strong and Chris Evert is likely to have a lot of romantic relationships. Very unconventional, she may have many unorthodox contacts. Chris has much zest for life, likes her freedom and finds it difficult to settle down.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 12th house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 12th house
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus Conjunct Moon/Asc.
Venus Opposition Mars/Jupiter
Venus Opposition Mars/Uranus
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