Chien-Ming Wang in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Chien-Ming Wang is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Chien-Ming Wang is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
Chien-Ming Wang often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Wang thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Chien-Ming is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Chien-Ming Wang has good psychological insight into others.
He is inclined to be somewhat gloomy, is easily offended, and he tries to suppress the jealousy he may feel. Chien-Ming Wang may have been brought up to sacrifice and forego a lot of things, making him a bit hard and unyielding in later life.
His emotional life tends to be a bit strange and he is likely to fantasize a lot and to weave a web of illusions. Easily swayed by the needs of others, Chien-Ming Wang must learn not to take on others problems and also guard against others deceiving him.
In love relationships, Chien-Ming Wang is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Chien-Ming enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Chien-Ming Wang responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.
Wang is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Chien-Ming Wang thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Chien-Ming Wang puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Chien-Ming Wang and he is not happy without a love partner. Wang can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
Chien-Ming Wang shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Chien-Ming's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Chien-Ming Wang also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Chien-Ming likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.
Chien-Ming's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Chien-Ming Wang is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Wang is to being left out or unappreciated.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Chien-Ming Wang in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Wang is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Chien-Ming Wang at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
When it comes to love relationships, Wang is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Chien-Ming Wang has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Chien-Ming acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
Chien-Ming Wang is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Chien-Ming is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Chien-Ming Wang professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Wang a lot of breathing space.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Conjunct Saturn/Pluto
Moon Conjunct Neptune/Asc.
Venus in Taurus
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Opposition Uranus
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