Charmane Star
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in her relationships, Charmane Star inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in her loved ones. This is good, since she would never settle for anything less! Charmane wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty she feels she is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Star lavishes on those she cares about. Charmane Star has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt her feelings is to ignore her. She is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Charmane Star hates emotional games and dishonesty.

Charmane Star has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Charmane sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Charmane Star is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she comes across. Charmane wears her heart on her sleeves and cannot hide her emotions.

She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Charmane Star cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Star's motto.

Although Charmane Star was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Charmane's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Star's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Charmane Star is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Charmane Star has a positive emotional outlook and cultivating spiritual relationships with others is important to her. She is likely to have a big circle of friends and acquaintances and she loves to give and receive social invitations.

She is easily influenced by her environment and tends to get depressed when things do not go the way she expected. Relationships are not easy for Charmane Star; she could be a recluse, avoiding most contact with others.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Charmane Star enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Charmane wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Charmane is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Charmane Star feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Charmane Star explores the depths she is capable of. She could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with her partners. Star will experience both heaven and hell in her closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Charmane Star things about herself and about love that she could not learn in any other way. Star will often enter relationships which she realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet she cannot resist them, nonetheless. Charmane Star needs not to avoid berating herself for these "bad" choices; instead, she needs to learn what she can from them.

Her romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. Charmane Star longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. Star tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 1st house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node

Moon Conjunct Saturn/Asc.

Venus in Aries

Venus in 9th house

Venus Opposition Pluto

Venus Opposition Saturn/Uranus